Thank you to Kate and Anne. Sorry if I touched on a hot subject. This is why I posted last week about offensive topics. I agree with Sara-Anne that prying into someone's personal life *can* be wrong - an example is what happened to our lovely Princess Diana, but when people consciously put themselves in the public eye they can expect some curiosity. Often people ordinary people like me try to find some common ground with a genius. Most of us have a love life. Most of us think it is normal. I like to think of Glenn Gould being happy. I was not trying to start an offensive discussion. James ----- Original Message ----- From: Anne M. Marble Sent: September 8, 2002 1:49 AM To: F_MINOR@EMAIL.RUTGERS.EDU Subject: Re: GG Mystery Lover > It never ceases to amaze me how many people want to think there was some glorious, fantastical love story in Glenn Gould's life. Unfortunately, the man wanted that part of his life, if it even existed, to be kept private. The thing that amazes me the most is that no one wishes to respect that. Everyone who holds him in any supposed esteem wants to pry into all the details of the poor man's life; details that he wished to keep to himself. Why can't any of you respect that? > > Sara-Anne Churchill
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Please remember that when people join F-Minor, they don't necessarily know all that much about Glenn Gould. They often post questions about GG's life without even realizing they have hit upon a "hot" topic. The fact that people join F- Minor without having read a lot of biographical material is a sign of the power that his music has on people. Newcomers on the list who ask questions should not be scolded for they may not realize they have asked about a controversial issue. For that matter, old hats should not be scolded -- the discussion has remained very circumspect, as far as I can see. It is being carried out with respect and discretion, not to mention affection. No names were named -- well except for Petula Clark, and that doesn't count.
The discussion is much more affectionate and respectful of GG than the speculation in any of the biographies. Many of the people on this list understand GG more than the biographers. After all, so far the biographers have all scoffed at the Importance of The Idea of North, despite its importance in Glenn Gould's life. Yet F-Minor has been very reverential of GG's radio documentaries, not to mention his essays and philosophy.
Also, how people approach any individual who has an impact on their life is specific to that person. Some people are curious about the person's life, some would prefer to discuss only the music. F-Minor is supposed to be open to many types of discussion. It is very common to see people asking about Glenn Gould's diet or about the pills he took. Those have been adopted as acceptable topics. I'm sure he would be startled to know so many people know about his scrambled egg habit. He probably would not be shocked to know people were curious to know whether or not he ever fell in love. Celebrities realize that their fans will ask those questions. But GG would be startled to know people know what he liked to eat.
Please do not restrict peoples' interest in what, after all, was a wonderful and fascinating man. After all, as Mary Jo said, one can always delete those posts that do not interest you personally. None of them were hurtful or offensive, or in any way truly intrusive.
Anne M. Marble
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